Having good friends in your corner is one of the most valuable things you can have in life. They’re there to support you during the good times and the bad, and they can make all the difference in helping you navigate life’s ups and downs. But finding your tribe of good friends can be challenging, especially after college. Here’s a bit about my own experience and why having a supportive community is so important:

After I graduated from college, I found myself feeling lost and disconnected. I am probably the only person who didn’t attend a college outside of New York City, and so I felt a little behind. I missed out on the close-knit family you gain being away at college. I found myself feeling lonely and disconnected.

But I knew how important it was to have good friends in my corner, so I set out to find my tribe. I forced myself outside and made peers in my classes whose interests aligned with my interests, and I made an effort to amend old relationships where I thought they were necessary. It wasn’t easy at first, but I kept putting myself out there, and eventually, I found a group of friends who felt like family, and got back a few more.

Having a supportive community has made all the difference in my life. My friends are there to celebrate my successes and cheer me up when I’m feeling down. They’ve helped me through tough times and provided a sounding board for my ideas and dreams. They’ve become a second family to me, and I can’t imagine my life without them.

Here are a few reasons why having good friends in your corner is so important:

1. They provide emotional support: Good friends are there to listen when you need to talk, offer advice when you’re feeling lost, and provide a shoulder to cry on when you’re feeling down.
2. They help you grow: Good friends can challenge you to be your best self and push you to pursue your goals and dreams.
3. They offer perspective: When you’re going through a tough time, it can be hard to see the bigger picture. Good friends can offer perspective and help you see things from a different angle.
4. They make life more fun: Life is more enjoyable when you have people to share it with. Good friends can provide laughter, joy, and fun in your life.
5. They become family: When you find your tribe, they become more than just friends. They become family who will be there for you through thick and thin.

In conclusion, having good friends in your corner is essential for a happy and fulfilling life. It can be challenging to find your tribe, but it’s worth the effort. Whether you join clubs, attend social events, or simply make an effort to be friendly to those around you, taking the time to build a supportive community will pay off in dividends.