As someone in a committed relationship, I’ve often heard the phrase “happy wife, happy life.” While I understand the sentiment behind it, I believe it’s important to move beyond this outdated notion and embrace a new mantra: “happy spouse, happy house. (Coined by Pastor Cal from Married At First Sight)”

The act of submission is often associated with marriage, particularly with the idea that the wife should submit to her husband. However, I think that the idea of submission should be redefined to apply to both partners in the relationship. This means that both partners should strive to please each other equally, rather than placing the burden of happiness solely on one person.

In my own relationship, my partner and I have made a conscious effort to make sure that we are both happy and fulfilled. This means that we both take responsibility for our own happiness, but we also make an effort to please each other and ensure that our needs are being met.

For example, my partner knows that I love to go out and explore new places and try new things. While this is not necessarily his favorite thing to do, he makes an effort to plan date nights around activities that he knows I will enjoy. In turn, I make an effort to participate in activities that he enjoys, even if they are not necessarily my cup of tea.

This notion of mutual submission is not just about making each other happy – it’s about building a stronger and more fulfilling relationship. When both partners are invested in each other’s happiness and well-being, it creates a sense of trust and intimacy that is essential to a healthy relationship.

Of course, this does not mean that both partners should give up their own needs and desires in order to please the other person. Rather, it means that both partners should be open and communicative about their needs and work together to find a way to meet them. This requires compromise and empathy, but it ultimately leads to a more satisfying and fulfilling relationship for both parties.

In conclusion, I believe that the idea of submission in a relationship should be redefined to apply to both partners. Rather than placing the burden of happiness solely on one person, both partners should strive to please each other equally. By doing so, we can build stronger, more fulfilling, and more intimate relationships that bring happiness and joy to all involved. So let’s embrace the idea of “happy spouse, happy house” and strive to make our relationships the best they can be.